For example, wanting to be less critical of others, or more focused in class are positive changes.

Try changing your hair color, or style your hair differently. You could also learn a new language, or take a class outside of your major.

If you want to be more outgoing, then be more outgoing on your own terms. Don’t start drinking or smoking just to be more outgoing, for example.

By doing the things that help you feel more confident, you will be more confident.

If you cannot seem to shake your loneliness, make an appointment with a counselor on campus. A counselor can help you work through hard times.

You could also offer to trade notes with someone, or help someone study for a big test.

Ask a classmate if they would like to go to a game, or make plans with your roommate to attend a game.

There are so many clubs in college, the hardest part will be picking one. You can also start a club as well.

You could also have a small party in your dorm room, if it is allowed. To ensure your party’s success, make sure to provide some snacks and beverages, cool tunes, and games.