Let others speak before you speak. Interrupting someone when they haven’t finished their thought is extremely rude and shows disrespect to the other person. If it happens by accident, apologize for the incident and let them continue so they can finish what they were saying. Stop what you’re doing and acknowledge whoever addresses you right away. Don’t keep people waiting to try to get your attention, address them quickly so they can see that you want to listen to what they have to say. If you wait too long to address them, they might think you don’t have time to listen to them.
Make eye contact when speaking to others. Whether it is at the podium during a speech, or when you are having a conversation by the lockers, eye contact is important. It establishes a connection of understanding between people as well as emphasizes what is being said. Smile genuinely when greeting others or when having a casual conversation. A smile sets a relaxed tone and will make people feel at ease around you. Walk with purpose when getting from one place to another. Don’t slouch and walk with your back straight. By doing this you are showing that you take your responsibilities as class president seriously and that you are ready to take on any challenge that arises.
Greet people when you pass by them in the hallways. Saying ‘Good Morning’ or ‘Good Afternoon’ is a great way to establish a positive connection with people. Greetings can also really make a difference in people’s days if they are not going too well. Open the door for others when there are people walking behind you. This small gesture shows good manners and is very appreciated. Help students carry their belongings if they have too much stuff on their hands. By doing this you are preventing any possible disaster of students tripping, papers falling everywhere, or projects breaking. Show appreciation to cafeteria workers by saying ’thank you’. It is so easy to forget to do this when you’re busy talking to your friends, but doing this is important so everyone else can say it as well.
Get students to assist you in writing thank you letters to all faculty and staff. Writing thank you letters is a great way to involve a lot of your classmates and teachers will appreciate getting unique letters from different students. Help organize a potluck for faculty and staff where the students brings all the food. A potluck can be a great bonding experience between teachers and students. Pick a day to have sweets and treats delivered to teachers in their classrooms. Designating students to deliver sweets such as cookies or chocolate to teachers after a long day of lessons is sure to bring a smile to these hard working instructors.
Set up a station during lunch time with arts and crafts for students to use in order to create unique letters to give to their parents when they get home. Doing this will help students get creative and will allow them to have fun while showing gratitude. Suggest to the music department that creating a song specifically for saying thank you to your parents would be a good idea. The song could be showcased by the student choir, during a talent showcase, or individual students could learn it and sing it to their parents in the comfort of their home.
Start up a conversation with someone between classes. Even if you just stop by someone’s locker to ask how their day is going, it will help students understand that you are a friendly person. Sit with someone new each day during lunch time. Look around the cafeteria to see if anyone is sitting alone and join them for lunch. This is your chance to approach students that are loners and get to know what kind of issues they want you to deal with. Partner up with different classmates for projects in class. It is easy to stick with your friend for projects, but pairing up with different people can be rewarding because you will get to know them better while working together.
Introduce yourself when you see classmates you have not met yet. Ask for students’ names and repeat it to them to make sure you’re saying it right. Acknowledge people you’ve already met on different occasions by addressing them by name. Recall parts of past conversations so classmates can see you pay attention to them.
Plan gatherings at the mall to shop together. There are so many stores and activities at a mall, so it is the perfect place to interact with your fellow classmates and learn more about them in a casual setting. Get together to watch movies at the movie theatre as a large group. There won’t be much talking done during the movie, but the discussion after will help everyone get familiar with each other. This will open up the way for more serious dialogue at school in the future. Organize a day in the park with everyone to play outdoors. You can play different games or even enjoy a picnic together. The perfect setting for relaxed conversation.
Separate the students immediately and ask if everyone is ok. By calming everyone down and diffusing the situation, students will be able to relax and explain what exactly happened. Ask a teacher or staff for assistance if the situation is too big to handle on your own. Sometimes having an adult present is the only way that students will behave, so asking for help should always come to mind in difficult situations. Encourage students to report any injustices to you or to school officials. If someone tells you about a specific situation, let a school counselor know so they can approach the student professionally.
Suggest to have hall monitors to supervise students between classes. Hall monitors can help make sure that everything is running smoothly while everyone is going to class. In case there is a problem, a hall monitor can address it or let an instructor know about the issue. Help post anti-bullying posters around the school. By doing this, students will be aware of how they act and treat each other. Putting reminders for everyone will see can help reduce bullying. Come up with workshops or seminars to help students speak up if they are being bullied.
Let students know that you are available to talk with them whenever they need to. Tell students your locker number so they can leave anonymous notes with the issues that bother them. You will still receive the messages you need to see, but students will be able to avoid the confrontation that they might not want to face. Guide students who are actively voicing their issues to help others students voice their own problems as well.
Conduct periodic meetings where students can ask you questions or tell you what is important to them. Actively seek out suggestions from both students that you interact with daily and others that you don’t see often. Come up with different ideas to address the issues that students want resolved. Seek students’ assistance to work with you in helping reach class goals together.
Ask teachers to evaluate your leading method to see if there is anything you need to change. Hand out “comments” cards to students so they can let you know what area you need to improve on as their class leader. Create a “pros and cons” with fellow classmates after school for your leadership style. Pinpoint your strengths on your own and try to apply that to areas where you believe you need improvement.
Take an hour of your day for yourself without having to worry about anything related to your position as class president if there are several issues you are trying to handle. Divide the responsibilities you have with the rest of the student council so that you do not have an excessive load of things to do. Remember that you can ask for help at any point to make things easier. Your classmates, teachers, and parents are more than willing to assist you in organizing workshops, planning school dances, running fundraisers, or completing any other activity for the benefit of your class.
