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“For the longest time, I thought Prince was singing, ‘Don’t party like an overlord’ in ‘1999. ’ Good thing I never tried that song at karaoke!” “I still can’t decide if my favorite of the Doctor’s companions is Martha or Rose. They were both equally great. ” “George Takei is one of my favorite celebrities to follow on Twitter. He’s either thought-provoking or flat-out hilarious!”
“You sit behind me in physics, right? I’m Jennifer. Nice to meet you. ” “So what brings you here tonight?” “I’m actually a physics major. What about you?” “I hear these parties are always a hit. Is this your first, or have you been to a few before?”
If you don’t drink alcohol, you don’t have to feel left out. You could opt for punch or a soft drink. Ginger ale, if available, can mimic the appearance of white wine or beer. If opaque cups are available, you could drink water from yours. No one has to know your drink is alcohol-free.
Even if there’s a dress code, you don’t have to sacrifice confidence. If you’re nervous about wearing a toga, ask the host of there’s some wiggle room in the dress code. Maybe you could wear a white tank top and white trousers under your costume. If black isn’t your color, forget about the Goth costume for Halloween and opt for something a bit lighter.
Food generates conversations. People love free food, so party goers will always make their way over to the chips and dip. If you are getting a plate of food at the same time as someone else, strike up a discussion about how great the punch is or how bad the quiche is. The refreshments table allows you to be occupied. This is one of the few places at a party where you can be alone and not look awkward. If you are holding a drink or a plate of food, you’ll be less likely to fidget.
If you don’t feel comfortable dancing, don’t worry! You and other spectators can talk about the music or engage in some light self-mockery. (“Last time I tried to dance, my friends thought I was trying to shoo away a swarm of gnats. ”) On the other hand, if you choose not to talk to anyone, you could use your attention to your peers’ moves as an excuse.
